
Sho-Sho Smith is now available for speaking engagements and book readings. Drawing from her unique experiences as a Chinese-American sex and relationship coach, writer, and practitioner of Internal Family Systems therapy, she brings a powerful voice and fresh perspectives to your event, conference, panel, workshop, or intimate gathering.
Coaching & Therapy
Sho-Sho creates spaces where complexity, humor, and vulnerability intersect to spark meaningful change, with transformative conversations on topics such as:
- Decolonizing sex and relationships
- Skill-building boundaries
- Relationship repair techniques that actually work
- IFS for racial identity
- Sexual racism
- Polyamory and ethical non monogamy for BIPOC
- Masculine arts for the modern Asian-American man
Book Readings
Sho-Sho is also thrilled to share excerpts and insights from her memoir, Crycation: On the Road to Find My Beauty, Define My ’50s, Decolonize My Life. With unflinching honesty, she recounts her journey as a widow reclaiming her identity through a solo road trip, offering a deeply personal lens into aging, reinvention, and Asian-American womanhood.
Sho-Sho also speaks to the often-overlooked struggles and strengths of Asian-American men, exploring themes of masculinity and self-expression in a rapidly evolving world. Whether you’re looking for inspiration, healing, or an unforgettable story, Sho-Sho’s talks will leave audiences moved, challenged, and empowered to reimagine their relationships and lives.
Contact Sho-Sho for speaking engagements
