Learn to Play Again
I help multiracial couples uplift their sex and erotic lives, navigate relationship and parenting, repair conflict and communicate, and open up monogamous relationships to polyamory, role-play, fantasy, kink, and BDSM.
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Your Sexual Connection
For many BIPOC couples, mixed messages around sexuality—rooted in cultural, religious, or societal norms—can block connection. I help couples untangle these narratives and reclaim their right to pleasure. From building sexual confidence to exploring kink or polyamory, you can have a sexual connection that feels safe, joyful, and fully yours.
IFS + Sex and Relationship Coaching
My couples coaching is grounded in Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, which views each partner as a constellation of “parts” carrying hopes, fears, and wounds. Applied to each person’s unique sexuality and erotic landscape, you can re-learn your own and your partner’s innermost self with curiosity and compassion－and become captivated in a fresh, new way.
Traditional and Non-Traditional
Get tailored support for couples redefining relationship boundaries or diving into sexual exploration. Whether you’re navigating a traditional marriage or exploring non-monogamy, BDSM, or sexual fluidity, I can meet you where you are. We’ll work together to ensure your relationship is built on mutual respect, consent, and honest communication.
Parenting While BIPOC
Couples often need help in balancing the demands of parenting with maintaining intimacy and partnership. We’ll address how cultural values, ancestral legacies, and family expectations impact your parenting and relationship. Together, we’ll create strategies for co-parenting and sustaining your intimate lives amidst the challenges of family life.
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